I would like to imagine that most people spend this day with their dads. Maybe a BBQ with family, some outdoor games and a lot of love. In my head, it is like a Hallmark movie. Does this kind of thing really happen? I wouldn't know. I would love to know what it is like to have a good relationship with a dad. What does it feel like to be his princess?
No matter how old I become, this day is never a happy one. It is one that reminds me of what I didn't/don't have and what I wish I had. "Father of the Bride"...can I have that dad? One who adores me forever?
To make matters worse, my daughter has the same issues. Her dad hasn't seen her in 14 years! My sons' dad sees them very often, but he has no clue what makes a real dad. It isn't ice cream and toys. My eldest son is struggling so badly this year because he is at the "look what I have and oh how I wish I had this instead". My heart aches for him and I try hard to remind him of anything that is positive for him to cling to. But for every "good" there are 10 "bads". His dad is not physically abusive , he is just clueless, thoughtless, lacks common sense and any "dad" traits. This is definitely a case of when "throwing a ball back and forth" does not heal my sons broken heart.
The only thing I can do is point my children to the ultimate Father....as I have had to do myself.
If you have a dad, like in a Hallmark movie, please let him know everyday how awesome he is and YOU need to feel such gratefulness.
Thanks for reading today!
Addie Rose
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